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Friday, November 20, 2015

Love alone is not enough

Waleed Aly is a well-known Australian media commentator.  This week on Channel Ten’s The Project he produced an impassioned and compelling speech about the Paris killings. This went viral, achieving 27 million views on social media within just a few days. That is more hits than there are people in Australia.

According to Waleed Aly, ISIS is weak but it hides this because it wants us all to be afraid, very afraid. Its whole purpose is that our fear will turn to hate, and hate will ripen into ‘World War III’.

All people of good will who would stand against ISIS, Muslim or non-Muslim alike, must therefore come together in unity.  According to Waleed Aly, love, and less hate is what we need.

Waleed Aly is absolutely right that we do need love. But like the air we breathe, love by itself is not enough. It is not all we need.

We also need truth, and a whole lot more of it. John's gospel reports that Jesus came ‘full of grace and truth.’ Truth without grace becomes a police state. But grace without truth is every bit as dangerous.

Waleed Aly himself rightly identified the Paris atrocity as an “Islamist terrorist attack”. It is not hatred to ask what this word ‘Islamist’ actually means.

He was also right to point out that ISIS wants to set non-Muslims and Muslims against each other.  But this is not all ISIS wants, and saying this does not explain why they want it. It is not enough to say “ISIS wants to cause World War III,” for war is but a means to an end.  This tactic is a symptom of a problem, not its root cause.

Asking hard questions is not evidence of lack of love.  It is not victimizing Muslims to seek to understand the theology of the jihadis.  Asking how and why ISIS makes use of the Qur’an or the model of Muhammad is not vilification.

These points are important because the feeling of being unloved by itself is not enough to turn so many young people into killers.  There are many communities in the world which experience hatred, but this is rarely enough on its own to give rise to virulent, violent global ideologies.

No one could dispute that the tactic of intentionally using violence to incite fear and hatred is one of the weapons in the jihadis’ arsenal, but it is just that: a tactic. Hatred incited by violence is not the heart of the matter, nor the fundamental driver in this war.  It is but a symptom of deeper things.

Hatred can fuel this war, but love alone will not put it out.

Furthermore, a danger with Waleed Aly's rhetoric is that it could work as a wedge to separate love from truth, treating the two as strangers.  It could be used as a pretext to censor those who ask the hard questions, on the grounds that this is unloving.  In this struggle it is wrong to privilege either love or truth, for we will need both.

Truth without love can cause endless heartache.  This is true. But love without truth can cause a naive blindness which meekly tolerates abuse and leads to suicidal submission.

This is likely to be a very long war.  Relationships will be  strained.  And yes, we will all need a lot of compassion.  But without truth to strengthen it, love alone will not save us. 

This post also appeared in Lapido Media.

Mark Durie is the pastor of an Anglican church, a Shillman-Ginsburg Writing Fellow at the Middle East Forum, and Founder of the Institute for Spiritual Awareness.


  1. Wonderful analysis and response to Waleed Aly's speech about the "Islamist terrorist attack" on Paris.

  2. Thanks Mark, appreciate you balanced view of the current season.

  3. Such an elegant and concise rebuttal of Mr Aly's facile words.

  4. First reasonable thing I have heard from the Anglican Church for a long time!

  5. Well done Mark.

    As a practising Anglican in SE Melbourne, I want to see this text reprinted in all the Anglican newspapers across Australia.

    We can guess the likelihood.

    The truth that Mark speaks, in my opinion, requires the unchaining of the stifling effects of restrictive
    free speech laws such as Clause 18C.

    As a 59 year old gay man, I am a high target from extremist Islam and I rather think I have a substantial vested interest in my own survival, alongside the very long list of Infidels.

    I feel I am living in the film Lord of the Rings, with commentary now contemplating the need for vast marshalled armies forming a Grand Coalition to defeat ISIS.

    As a quote from the book says from Frodo to Sam....."we are all playing a part in a great story and we don't know how its going to end".

    A Ring Bearer might need to appear.

    Thank you Mark once again.

    Tim Renouf

  6. Love and truth
    On one level this is a very significant caution as to how speaking of love as Waleed Aly did can be just a feel good without real meaning. On another level if we separate love and truth then we diminish both. Love is truth snd truth is love might seem a platitude yet at the very essence of life. The question is which comes first. A. Person has to want to know the truth and come to love truth. Finding the truth begins with truth. Hence the importance of Waleed Aly's position. If we love one another we will want to know the others truth. This then lays the foundations for finding God's truth amidst the disparity of religions.

  7. Perhaps love without truth is not fully love, and truth without love is not fully truth.


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